So, if you are reading this article, you most likely aren’t very satisfied with your way of thinking.
The first question, which is foreseeable, is: WHY do you actually think so negative about your life. Most of the time, this comes from bad experiences you had in your recent or long-time past. So, try to find out what actually caused this. Maybe a failed relationship and you feel that she/he or you were the cause of that, and so you either feel guilty or bitter about that?
Rework that, and accept it as done. We live in the real world – the one that is happening whilst you read this – not the past, not the future.
Every Situation is as good as you let it happen to be. If you come to enjoy your time and do the best you can, as well as to accept that not everything is fully under our control and therefore can’t be helped, you’ll slowly learn to accept fate and move on, feeling more indifferent about failures of any kind.
Just try to get out there, meet new women/men and get happy. That is one of the easiest things to increase your satisfaction about life, and therefore lets you focus on your carrier, family, yourself or just whatever you want, more.
And, after all, even if things do not work out as we planned; we have the possibility to use this experiences to make it better next time. We may have only one chance to get certain things right, but for every time we don’t get them just as right, our mindsets, abilities and our resistance gets better.
So, these were some words of mine to the topic on how to think positive.