What is the true meaning of love?

Most people who claim to love someone don’t really love them, because they don’t know what love actually is.

What is love NOT?

  • Possessiveness is not love
  • Jealousy is not love
  • Lust is not love
  • Fear is not love
  • Keeping people all to yourself is not love
  • Expecting something from someone is not love

Real, true love is unconditional. All other “kinds” of love are not really love. Most parents and kids don’t love each other, most people in relationships don’t love each other, most people on the planet never experience unconditional love in their entire lives… or at least it sure looks that way.

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To love someone unconditionally means that you love the person exactly as they are, exactly as they were before, and exactly as they will be in the future – because people change all the time, so if you love the person, you will love them even if they become something you disagree with. How many parents can say that about their kids? How many people can say that about their “lover”? Love is not about you or your pleasure or your amusement. It’s not about what you get out of it or what the other person can give to you. It’s not about having a trophy you can show off with and tell people “This is *MY* girlfriend/boyfriend/wife/husband/son/daughter/whatever”. You do not “own” anyone. It’s not about you feeling ‘proud’ to be with someone who always agrees with everything you say and do and never does anything you disagree with. Unconditional love means that the person can just live their life exactly as they choose and you will always care about them no matter what.

So, how does unconditional love fit in with relationships and marriage and sex and all that stuff the whole world keeps going crazy over? It doesn’t, really. It doesn’t “fit” in anywhere. Relationships are like trying to put love into a box and keep it there, except love is infinitely sized, and the box is… well, there is no box large enough. And a normal, conventional marriage is quite possibly the worst possible way to show someone how much you love them.

Unconditional love is more of a spiritual thing. It’s not bound by physical things, like blood relations and the desire to procreate. It has nothing whatsoever to do with sex. Most people are in relationships because they’re horny and/or lonely, even if they genuinely think they love the other person. But if the person they “love” suddenly lost their “equipment” for whatever reason, would they still want to be with that person? Would they get jealous if the person they “love” wanted to spend time with other people as well? Relationships based on needs are not unconditional.

In order to truly understand love, you must first forget everything you have ever learned about it from society and anyone else (including what I just said). You are the only person who can tell you what love is. The only reason I’m writing all this stuff is because people always try to fit “love” in with things like dating, relationships and marriage and all that. You can’t make any sense of it if you keep doing that. You have to get rid of everything you think you know first.

 

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About my writing

I write about this because I have always been deeply bothered by society’s definitions of love and how most people talk about love, and everything they associate with it. I have given this topic years of thought, and always found it extremely hard to explain my thoughts in actual words. How do you explain something as abstract and unexplainable as love? Sometimes the topic comes up on forums and I always respond to people as best I can. At first I was terrible at getting my point across, but after enough attempts I actually started to make some sense to myself. Then one day I realized I had typed quite a lot, and I never seem to run out of steam on this topic, so why not write some full articles about it?

If you’ve been here before, you may have noticed that I moved from my old site to theguide2.com – I’m still the same person doing the writing though, so nothing has really changed except the address. 🙂

Q&A:

Q: Do you think any human being can ever love someone 100% unconditionally?
A: Probably not. It’s (probably) impossible to be perfect, but that doesn’t mean it isn’t still worth it to try, just to see how close you can get.

Q: Do you love anyone perfectly unconditionally without ever making any of the mistakes you talk about here?
A: Hell no. But I’ve improved a lot and I’m always working on it.

Q: Doesn’t that make you a hypocrite?
A: If you want it to. In a way, I want my posts to provoke people because so many people get it horribly wrong. And yes, I am actually this hard on myself as well. I’ve done my fair share of stupid things and have beaten myself up over it a million times. But I guess that’s how I had to learn… the hard way. At least now I know what I was doing wrong, and how it feels to be wrong, so I can understand better when other people do it.


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About The Meaning Of Love

I write about love because I have always been deeply bothered by society’s definitions of love and how most people talk about love, and everything they associate with it. I have given this topic years of thought, and always found it extremely hard to explain my thoughts in actual words. How do you explain something as abstract and unexplainable as love? Sometimes the topic comes up on forums and I always respond to people as best I can. At first I was terrible at getting my point across, but after enough attempts I actually started to make some sense to myself. Then one day I realized I had typed quite a lot, and I never seem to run out of steam on this topic, so why not write some full articles about it? Click my little picture on the left to see all my articles.

506 Replies to “What is the true meaning of love?”

  1. I honestly agree with u on the true meaning of love. I would like to experience how love really feels giving and receiving

  2. there is no definition for love its just a feeling and ya you are very right about the unconditional love
    love doesn’t mean to give or take it means to believe and do what is relevant and give happiness

  3. Unconditional love can only be seen from its source, God. He displayed it many times in our axistance as human beings. anyone can flash back and see.

  4. TRUE LOVE CAN CHANGE THE HUMAN. IT IS A WAY OF BAD TO GOOD. SO LOVE MAKES MAN PERFECT

  5. nice and it is touching it makes me fell better……………..lalalala……………… it…….. makes. …………… ….. me fell better ………………………….. thankszz………………u……….

    sssssssz very …………….much………….

  6. I have experienced the meaning of love and have unlocked the formula for love.
    I have walked an earth that is perfect and beautiful and it is right in front of our eyes.

    The key to the universe is TIME, EFFORT, MINDSET and LOVE.

    INTENT = FOCUS

    What you believe in you focus on?

  7. you see i love this girl she is younger then me 3 years 4 weeks from now i have to leave her but i truly love her but we fight alot because se pushes me away because shes scared for losing me i know that but i realy love her i am jealous when other guys play with her when she never doese it with me but that who i am she doesnt juge me but i juge her but i know im wrong but she loves me anyway i realy dont know what to do????

  8. love is undefineable word because when it start when will ends, simply deeply mind concentration on someone.

  9. I am in Love with my Ex we’ve been broken up for a wile now 3 months to be exact, but she has been bouncing from guy to guy trying to fine someone to replace me the thing is I she her do that and I feel sorry for her cause there is no one in the world that will ever Love, Care & Understand her like I do… I see her juggle 3 guys and I don’t get mad… I just sit there wishing I was one of the guys… I still Love her… I just don’t know what to do…?

  10. I agree with you totally, you should love not for others but for yourself no matter what others may say. Love because you want to love, and feel proud about yourself.

  11. i’ve been write about the meaning of love too..wow,i blowing up when i figure out that no one really know the real meaning of it. The only one know claimed by ourself.

  12. Love is the wonder that is our creator and saviour. I remember i used to weep like a mere baby when i was shown the shadow of its real meaning, shadow because i believe a living love will conquer all evil.

  13. love is something that comes from the bottom of your heart and is a mavelous thing.

  14. love , an awesome topic . The word love used so often , but the honest truth is that no one really understands what love is . Therefore I care for people and do all that I can to help but I’m not in love with anyone . Wish I felt or knew what love was . Even my wife only cares for me when things are good . I always tell her that’s not love , love is unconditional . Sad what this world has become .

  15. this article really helped me………………….love is so amazing’ it can never be explain

  16. koi mujhy bata skta hai k love ka meaning kia ho ga i mean l o v e in sb ka meaning………………………………………………………..i am w8ing

  17. Love is God we are just the image of God we can not be really God to become also love as he is …….. We have the shadow of love

  18. I dnt believe on luv, cos 98% of wmen luv u wen u hv money! Wen d money gon, u wl find it hard t c such luv again. So wman can only luv u bcos of who u ar! Dat never b a true luv, so no luv wtout money.

  19. LMAO o.k. now I feel much better!! I knew I surely wasn’t the only 48yr old that is clueless about the defnition of LOVE…..and those claiming unconditional love OH PLEASE!!!

  20. MAN NO ONE KNOWS WAT LOVE IS UNTIL THEY REALLY MEAT DAT SOMEONE OR THEY FILLL IT IN THERE HART DATS HOW I PUT IT IN MY EYES DATS ALL THANKS FOR READIN

    YO GIRL NAQUIA (AKA LILMAMA BAHHDD)
    🙂

  21. love is the most beautyful sad ness in the world, its undifine feeling in the human life . its never bends to anything for any one

  22. Hi, Friends

    I don’t descripe the LOVE, Each and every person has love with each other with family, freinds & wife or lover.

    So, if you are in love then stike with long life

  23. i”ll just say it i love someone unconditionally..and it is possible love someone 100% unconditionally

  24. I’m I’m love with my sons father but it seems like he don’t love me but I will give him my all but it seems like its not good enough forhim but he say that he love me

  25. do you believe that the way the people think, is different to the true meaning of love..? they think that once there is a strong feeling inside such as emotion its already love or being part of a family or friends is already love..

    but for me love is an actions, it is the way you do to someone that you want to love..
    like doing you’re obligation to each other caring them etch..
    so love can be unlove or love..
    strong feelings is just a fruit of it..its the reaction of your unconscious mind that the body feels..but still love is an action that you want to do to someone..
    by then it can be unconditional and not asking for demands..

  26. those people whose keep on saying that they love unconditionally but believing love is a feeling, what if the person they love dont love in return..they feel hurt, why? because they want to love in return.. isn’t it a demand and conditional..

  27. What if you’re with someone that you love and you’re there for him no matter what, even after infidelity on his side. You wish he didn’t do the things he did and you forgave him, but things haven’t been the same since. He no longer wants to sleep with you (though he’s not sleeping with anyone else), but everything else seems to be back to normal.
    Now and then I ask myself why I’m still with him and can’t seem to figure out if I’m actually in love with him or if I’m simply addicted to him?

    but you just can’t imagine walking away. You are still the way you were before, always there for your man, but

  28. talking about love, is like talking about oneself. wat you feel,think,say about love.easily entered but hard to carry out.

  29. LOVE:Is a promise make in the Heart silently,unfogetable by distance,unchangeble by time from the heart that cares forever and ever.

  30. I think that if you think you love someone go for it say you love them say whatever you feel don’t let anyone say you don’t know what true love is or isn’t ,Its the way YOU feel!
    let it out! scream it! everyone should know because they are yours and they well be for however long it last its not forever because everything has an end but everything goes on forever if you what it to we all have our forever..I think anything is possible but thats who I am . We are all different people in this world and thats what ,whatever put us here and thats what were here to do is anything we want if we couldn’t then we’d all be the same and I think that’d be boring if you agree ? but remember we’re all different and be yourself love anyone how makes you heart burn and burst out of your chest and tell the person you love them or you’ll never get the chance to or be way to late , love is forever and it isn’t make it what you want make it work have your life. It’s in your hands REMEMBER.

  31. I think love means u cant be away from tat person for a long time and u miss them u can always love them for who they are and know matter what they go through u are always with them every step of the way and u never leave them so dont stop keep going and try u never no where you’ll end up next

  32. well if you are willing to lay down your life for some one that is love no doubt about it and if they will ditto. same thing christ did for you.

  33. im n love with thys guy that i have known for quite some now lyk maybe yuu no 7 years and we were together then i messed up nd broke us apart and now im trying my best to get hym back cuzz i just found out i cnt live with out hym I LOVE YYUU ERIC

  34. It speaks volumes about our World Must of the comments below don’t have a clue what love is .

    Love
    Love is not just not a word. Married once, married twice.
    Fuck here, a fuck there. Consumed with the act of
    Pleasure.
    An endless lie, a sexual haze of endless lust.
    Love is not just word, it’s a way of being. An understanding
    Of two hearts as one. Free from the madness of
    This world. Love yourself and you will love another, for better or worse.
    True love never dies

    From Hugh Rose
    Artist writer&freethinker

    lusthughrose.blogspot.com

  35. love
    …is a feeling attachment
    …is being with a person through joy and pain
    …is accepting even a person’s worst attitude
    …is when you feel happy to see a person @ his/her most simple smile
    …is making dreams with that person
    …is building a world of unconditional feeling of trust,fidelity and care…
    ^_^ love you bhe

  36. Its funny how ppl think they luv eachotha…the only way u no tha someone really loves u is how they act nd the things they say nd they accept u the way u r nd dnt care wht ppl think ….thats how I no when someone really luvs their luver. : )

  37. true love is filled in hearts and good understanding between eachother.a gud feeling “MADE FOR EACH OTHER”.this feeling is only got by truelove.I WROTE THIS BY MY SWEET EXPERIENCE.

  38. I love a girl,i don’t care about my life,my future,i hav no fear what wil happen bt i knw she doesn’t love me,bt i stil tryng my best to let her knw what she means to Me.

  39. after i read this article, now i can finally breath.. coz before i though i already know the true meaning of love. but when i read this, i tell to myself that i still need to know alot of things about loving someone..

  40. love is meaning life so if you really like to have a good life u should have a love with some one who react this feeling otherwise leave it and stay away alone.
    or just spend ur time having fun and sex with a passed away peoples .

  41. love is a baby born between two hearts
    caring,
    sharing,
    understanding
    it has to be feeded with all kinds of healthy emotions….

  42. love.love is very important part in life
    pyar de bina kugh v nahi,puar sanu jeena sikanda a aasi bachpan to la k end tak ky nal pyar krde ha pr jdo sanu kise ik nal pyar hunda a ta asi hamesha ly us de ho jande a jroori nhi k oh v sanu sada pyar mile

  43. i dont know what love is but its because i never felt it before. its kinda alot like planting a flower. you cant just read a book about it and instantly know how to plant it. you need to actully plant the flower over and over again intill you master the depth of the soil and the amount of water it needs. so what im saying is you wont know what love is intill you actully experince it and not just once, twice or possibly a thrid time and only then will you understand the true meaning of love.

  44. Dnt knw wht is lov but wht i knw is tht i hv learn 4rm my mistakes when cumin 2 lve isues !

  45. i know love ka real matlib kia ha koi jana cahta ha tu is number par contact kary +923414267408

  46. i know love can wait everytime i wish the the time i will love every second…… i will wait off love everything …..????

  47. I don’t know much about love but what I know is that love really hurts when you least expert it.

  48. Love is the key of Life. (Love your wife honestly, faithfully)and you will be Bless – Happiness in return. And you will discover & fulfill the mystery of Life y u are born……………

  49. just love d love so much that d love starts loving u with much more love,,,,,,,,,,,

  50. love is nothin else than mixed emotions. humans always confuse this with some thing else. by the way wen you die you wake up in another world your just an illusion

  51. love is an emotion of strong affection and personal attachment.love is a virtue representing all

  52. itz just that right words are hard to express but i know love. to whom i do iknow it coz it gives me no chance to be double minded.when i am with them times becomes very worthy. i luv u Davy

  53. the corect description of love is in 1corithians13:1-8.its patient,not pround,not boastful,does not rely on its own……etc

  54. My love is 100% true for HER and i wont leave HER … Actually it should just be 200% true if the percentages are up to that much ! Love you maggie

  55. So what’s the difference between loving someone and being in love with someone?? Because the guy that I love told me he loves me but that he’s not in love with me?? Confused >_<

  56. if u love some1 so much and she just does not belive in love how can u prove to her that their is real love

  57. Its hard for me to leave him, I’ve tried b4. I came back, even if i should leave tomorrow ,I know i will never find another. I have some sort of (love)spiritual connection to him.

  58. I love my boyfriend&&He says he loves me. But I don’t really believe him all the way. But I never want us to break up. I want us to be together forever. I can’t really explain how much I love him.
    #I love you babe.

  59. true love is everywere its in the way some people kiss its in the way some people smile or look at you or you look at them its every were and some times if you try to give up like emo boy who just wrote a whal page about love being fake and hard to find well its not hard to find your just making it hard because your keeping your heart closed to others.

  60. love is our life
    when I really fall in love then I feel the reality of love
    love is really so beautiful.

  61. Thanks alot sir,now i understand d meaning of unconditional love.Its really a niceeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee one.

  62. SNEHAM ORIKKALUM THOLKARILLA……ennal,
    SNEHICHAVAR ENNUM THOTTITE ULLOO…”””thirichu kittatha snehathinu munnil”””

  63. I often cry tears of love just thinking about the girl I love. She is the most beautiful and perfect thing I have ever seen. When I think about her, I don’t think about having sex, fooling around, or anything even remotely related to that. Most of the time it’s thinking about us simply being in the same room, or maybe even us dancing together. I’m only 18 and I completely agree with this article. I found it cause I was thinking about her and without thinking just googled love. She’s my friend at the moment, we have never been ‘together’ and I’m still happier than I have ever been, being in this relationship. All I want is to be with her, just the two of us sitting together, plain and simple, nothing more.

    Everything written in this article is more of a fact than anything else I have ever read, and if I was hearing this at a speech, I would clap like hell at the end of it, something I have only done twice in my entire life for genuine reasons.

  64. Unconditional love is not demand for everything, so just would like know why do you have love? lust is not love, if s.o who you love and you see them that s.o have sex with other, How is your feeling and love?

  65. What the heck there is no true meaning of love it’s not something you can type on the computer it’s how ever u feel when your with someone and you can’t use words to describe it you can’t find the meaning of love on the Internet you find in your heart. You will know when your love

  66. it1s better deone the love so happy and love are bso handsome boyfriend

  67. I can agree, because love is spiritual,its the greatest Gift of the Holy spirit.

  68. orupadu love undaki ettal kurach varsham kazhyumbol kasumudakkathe karyam sathikkam

  69. you know one thing i just hate love and all and ur lacture whatever u had been written about love

  70. I am happy that i was too lucky and experienced it. Its a different thing that she is no more with me now but still i love her. I too was in confusion whether i was in love or i was a fool who never used his GF for any of his desire. I never expected anything from her and never fall into lust.Unconditional Love is not commen in this smart and practical world.

    Love you Ani!

  71. pag-ibig hindi ma iwasang hindi ka mag sisilos ka kasi ang iniisip mo na sa kanya ay parang nilalaro-an kalang niya but hindi naman ..??????

    😛
    🙂
    😀
    <3

  72. I Think Everyone has their own opinion on What exactly true love is, but im one of those owey gooey romantics and even at that i believe Love ultimatly begins with your personal love to God. he is the reason why we want to love and be loved, and without him, there is no finding true, unconditional, and honorable Love…

  73. Sir, u’ve said it all but i jst want 2 ask, can a guy love two girls at a time?

  74. love is the source of life, meaning it is a state of being (human being).it is not something u can give or receive. these r emotional triggers man has labeled as “love”. these feelings come from the conscience of man. the more emotions the stronger the ties. this is where relationships come into play. love is life and life is love

  75. John3:16 For God so love the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.

  76. True love is not based attachment to the other or needyness. Anyone that has meditated will know this. True love is all those positive feelings and being in spiritual communion wither other person.

  77. We first have to set oiur selves free and go beyond the conditioning of the grasping mind before we can unconditionally love ourselves and then others. The true self is not our self image or ego though this how most people operate. Once we are in touch with and know our true spiritual selves we can the. truly love another. Unless the other person too js coming from the same place it will be difficult. I would interested to hear what other people who have meditated have to say on the matter Oct true love. My email is thealan20 AT hotmail.com ThanksJ really enjoyed the article anxious everyone’s comments.

  78. wow nice 🙂 and i love it so mush
    <3 and i realize that some one can married some times and i think so every human cam love and i know that love can refuse.

  79. All i know is Love never make things bad! It may h’sn’t definition!

  80. Your Thu’um is as powerful as any Dova but, the human mind is too nanipulable to think on their own unlike you and I(to an extent).

  81. “manipulable” sorry for the error. My observation of the averge kin is they are made by other not themselves only a few are true the rest are a lie.

  82. Hi, I Thank you from the bottom of my heart to have made me understand the real meaning of love. I was totally lost about “love”. It was much of a desire to be with the person I love without thinking her about her, without caring about what she wants, without knowing what makes her happy. I wish I would have read this article few years back.

    Each and every work of your article has shaken me from the core of my soul. I cried the first time I read the article, thinking how bad I was in knowing what true love is. I learned a lesson by losing the person who loved me the most all her life. I was not able to give her “unconditional” love.

    To all peoples who are in love, please take care of your relationships, they are very precious, specially the person who loves you unconditionally. Please give them the same love and you are getting. The only thing that matters when you take your last breath is the same “love”.

    Relationships are very precious, Take care of them,
    because It is most painful for you,
    when A Person “U Know” becomes,
    A person “U Knew”.

    God Bless you for giving us such a beautiful article to read and understand the true meaning of LOVE. May God always shower his love on you and you always be happy in your life.

  83. to me’ love can touch us one time n last for a lifetime…………………………………like heaven n sometime hurt like hell………

  84. oh,shut up!im 73 yrs old and have always loved my husband of 55 yrs.love is nothing like you describe.its a beautiful thing that you feel.its the thing that gets you through the day,that causes you to marry and have children and grow old together,each gray hair grown while in the others loving arms.not something impossible and fleeting.thank you.

  85. first l am very interst love becous l am youth once about time there was a girl who thet very love me l now remmenbar l think here nAME hani l very love hani

  86. Nobody can give the proper answer of the question WHAT IS LOVE ?because I love someone past 7 years, till i don’t understant what is LOVE

  87. I Love the most “BEAUTIFUL”girl in this world………..do u know who is that…..?………don’t be anxious………….itz meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee……………HA…HA…HA.

  88. love is life no matter with whom mom,dad,frens,boyfren its the reason that 21st centuree is alive its the matter which make people wise its best feelin that we human beins ever had its a part of this wonderful world.
    first day of our life was also started wid love remember the day we were born because of love

  89. The true definition of love is Jesus and Jesus is my savior and no one can do anything to change that!!!!!!!!

  90. I really like what you said cause itreally helped me out to know what love really means 🙂

  91. ya its oll true about love….the real love….in unconditional love ur love 4 ur love never decreases in any condition .either you stay with him or not..either if you don’t get the love in back….very rare can understand wot the real love is….

  92. Tanx i realy apreciate ur point of view comcerning that ‘biblical great command’ (love)

  93. I’m sure you’re right about humans not being able too love somebody %100 unconditionally, but do you think it’s possible too love somebody %90 unconditionally? I believe you can, because I do. I’ve loved my Bestfriend, Ethan, ever since I met him. How we met? On the first day of school in Second grade, he accidentally elbowed me in the eye, but he wrote a whole paragraph apologizing to me, & I guess I just, fell in love, It’s something I just fell into. I know you’re probably gonna say, “You can’t fall in love in second grade, you were only seven years old.. ” but, I did, & it’s possible. I’ve always loved him, & I always will. He likes all these dorky space things, and I pretend he’s lame & all, I roll my eyes or give him a strange face, but.. I find it super cute.. We dated in fifth grade, I know, it’s young, but.. we did, & so.. it lasted for about, four months, or so? My used to be “bestfriend”, told him something, I don’t know what, but she told me he wanted too end our “relationship”, during lunch. She likes him, she told me, too. I heard her the other day telling him that I’m “crushing”, whatever you want to call it, on him. I heard him say I’m not his type, that he’s not intrested, & that it would ruin our friendship, that’s why I ended it, well you ended it, years ago, even after a few months, we were fifth graders, nothing was gonna really hurt then, but it would if I’m with her right now, I could change my mind, & then Lose my bestfriend.. I crushed a little on the inside, but I knew it was only because he doesn’t wanna hurt me. Gabriela, ex-“bestfriend”, is with him now. It hurts, but I still love him, & I will until the world ends. <3

  94. I AM LOVE WITH SOMEONE VERY PROBABLY BUT HE ACCEPT MY LOVE. SOMETIMES HE SHOULD SAYS I DON’T HAVE LOVE WITH YOU AND THEN I SUFFERED VERY MUCH I CANT RECOVER ITS MY PROBLEM BUT STILL I LOVING HE SO MUCH I THINK THAT’S THE I THINK BETWEEN HE AND ME THEIR IS NO ATTRACTION

  95. than 1st ajj k time m love only 4 word ….or real m love hota he nahi love ak word hai ……love kabhi kisi ko nahi hota .

  96. I think we can love people unconditionally. My first love is in Australia, I haven’t seen him since 2006, haven’t even been in contact with him in any means but in thoughts and imaginations, oh and in my poems. I know he is the only person I love and I will love him till the end. How many of you have watched Titanic?????

  97. love is when you find that one person that makes you happy, that you can trust. that makes you feel you are the only one there. a person who makes you feel comfortable a feeling of happiness. when you go out, you only see that person and cant see or care about the people around you. love is pain that has turned into happiness. a person that will not hurt you and will support you. a person that is not greedy or selfish and will share or give you anything they can and it wouldnt matter how much or value of it. love is what i felt for someone who saw who i really was. helped me from my pain and learned to support my dream as much as i did hers. thats true love when you think 100% at the same time as one person.

  98. love is not a love it is just a friend ship some people love like me with madiha she dont tell these because she love me i dont known that we will marry but i love her so much madiha

  99. l like what you said about everything corcening love,l real leant a lot thank you

    i ditched by a person now i thought dt i deserve smeone who truly love what u said

    Hands off to u………………

  100. Love= GOD. So,no, no human being could ever perfect love. We can only make ATTEMPTS at it and continually TRY. Just like in the attainment of goals, oftentimes it’s more fun in the trying than the actual attaining.

  101. Sir am appreciate wish you the best that you so well deserve, thank you sir.

  102. what you say is right very few people if any will experiance true uncoditional love but also very few people would regoniseit either

  103. Thank you, whoever you are. So many people now-a-days dont get what the true meaning of love is, especially most teenagers. All they think it is has to do with living with a person and sleeping with them before marriage then they break up and next thing you know they’re with someone else claiming they ‘love’ them. Knowing that you truelly love someone is hard to put into words…unconditional love never faids away, it’s constant, never changes, and the longer you love someone the stonger the love and bond become. When you truelly love someone it’s hard to let them go, you want to stay with them forever, you don’t care how they look on the outside to others because you see the magnificence of their heart shine through their outward appearence, you dont care about their educational status because when love is involved WHO CARES how smart or how dumb they are. Any hoo….I really liked what ‘the guide 2’ put…you put it into words where most people cant. 🙂 thanks

  104. Love…. Hmm d spelln and pronouncn of luv came 4rm a strong sound. It hard 2 think of, harder 2 say and hardest thing 2 pratise.is not easy 2 luv, so any guy, girl woman or man dat come across true should mentain it don loss it, any family their is luv their is life in dad family any country their is luv their is happines in dat country. So luv Is life.

  105. great! finally someone speaks my language.
    this is almost a hundred percent true and for those who think that they love there husband or wife unconditionaly then your wrong for what if your husband killed your son for no reason? will you still love him? and what if your only child and your husband of wife was at risk? which one would you jump to save? love just doesnt exist in this world. its just an expression. the only person who truly loves is Jesus. he died for everyone including those who killed him and those who are the worst people you can think of. if you would risk your life or pray for salvation for the killer of your mother or son or someone close to you and take care of him then id say you have some love in you and if you dont then dont argue! for someone who says they love for real are those who will risk there life be good and pray for the best for anyone including someone whos done wrong aswell for love is dying for. i dont think anyone would!

  106. i don’t belv in love becs it hot when u lost d1 u love,u may never love any 1 again.i need some reason to love a lady

  107. really i appreciate the writer and i have got on my actual life it in our world

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